I'm a ninja too

Ruth can you help me or guide me? This Christopher Herrington is calling me from a different number. I have reported him everywhere. I wanted to keep contact to find this scammer. I gave this person 11,300. I did. I fell for it .long story and want to focus on getting the scammer and find out who the poor solider is. I haven't heard back from FBI Federal Commission Bureau. Local news stations. Catfish MTV. We talked from January to now. It seem so real. It's hard to believe it wasn't. This is not ok . I totally fell for it. He was due to come home this month but of  course he was caught with gold. I ma 43 and take care of my elderly dad . Mom passed almost 3 years ago this coming Aug. I was looking for companionship and gave my savings away for communication. I dont know where else to turn.